So talked to a male victim today.
Arranged marriage with a decent traditional type good looking girl 4 years ago. Courtship of 3 months, the usual long phone calls, cafe visits etc happend before marriage. She told him frankly she liked a guy in her office, he proposed her, she asked her family they said no. Dated him for 3 months. Guy said fine because she was beautiful and followed traditions. Marriage done. She brought her laptop, all her favorites, loads of pics of her with so called BF of 3 months, close hugging pics, he lifting her etc. Dude was pissed,confronted her, she started crying, told him it was a short fling, nothing else. Guy said fine. 2 days later, it was first night (suhaag raat). She started getting SMS from some dude, abusing her saying she was a b!tch that she betrayed him and married someone else all sort of abuse. Guy confronted her again, she told him he was just some psycho guy who believed she loved him even after rejection blah blah. Dude believed her, did it that night. After sex, she instantly said her bf's d!ck was bigger than his. Dude was shocked,
then she immediately apologized saying she was sorry. Then next few months, she kept fighting some days, behaving properly some days. Loads of male friends. Started abusing dude's mother, sister when alone with him, just pissing him off. He started checking her cell, She was always stalking 3-4 dudes on social media. When confronted, she told him she had multiple BFs, and he should be proud of her as she was so hot and still she married him. She even insisted on getting drunk and confessed she drank almost weekly.
When he got pissed and asked why didn't she tell him about BFs and drinking before marriage if she is so proud of it, she replied that no decent good well settled guy would have married her. She has cut off all his contact with his family and has become control freak.
Lessons to be learned: Never Marry, especially arranged marriage. If you still want to, make sure you do thorough background checks, and never ignore red flags.
